polyamory
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Not every battlefield can be found on a map. In this diary post I explore healing from past hurts and dealing with guilt in polyamory.
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Good fences make good neighbours, but what when a fence isn’t enough? Here’s responding to a neighbour who seemingly doesn’t want to co-exist in peace.
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Finally freed from the Lovehoney Forum, this BGD diary post explores personal boundaries, intimacy and desire — and what it means to take the helm of my own story.
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Ethical non-monogamy, anal play, and why bragging about your past can take you even further from your relationship goals. Welcome back to the danger zone.
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A sexy, inevitable exchange of power, but who is the real prisoner here?
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Relationships aren’t about who is wrong or right, they’re about being able to make a deal that works for both of you.
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Mister Valkyries asked me what I was going to write about, twenty-four hours adter my last diary post. I don’t think he considered my most obvious answer.



