polyamory
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Power is rarely as simple as a crown on a head or a collar around a throat. Sometimes it rests between them — unclaimed, waiting, and heavy with desire.
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Sometimes the only way forward is to ask the uncomfortable questions. After a few days of confusion, crossed wires, and unexpected events, it was time to get answers.
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The author reflects on their decision to resume diary posts after realizing their narrative voice won’t be silenced. They discuss the importance of genuine writing rather than adherence to a schedule and express skepticism about traditional roles in BDSM. Their dynamic with Mister Valkyries highlights their desire for authenticity over conforming to norms.
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Not every battlefield can be found on a map. In this diary post I explore healing from past hurts and dealing with guilt in polyamory.
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Good fences make good neighbours, but what when a fence isn’t enough? Here’s responding to a neighbour who seemingly doesn’t want to co-exist in peace.
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Finally freed from the Lovehoney Forum, this BGD diary post explores personal boundaries, intimacy and desire — and what it means to take the helm of my own story.
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Ethical non-monogamy, anal play, and why bragging about your past can take you even further from your relationship goals. Welcome back to the danger zone.
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A sexy, inevitable exchange of power, but who is the real prisoner here?


