I totally pinched this idea from my blogging friend, KinkyMira. I think it’s genius.

• Me, Elena— existing since 1988, blogging since 2014. Submissive (eventually, if handled correctly)
• Master Levi — former colleague turned best friend, Dominant (since 2006) and husband (since 2013)
• Huxley — our beloved senior Jack Russell Terrier. Thoroughly spoilt and tennis ball mad.
• “The neighbour”, “my neighbour” — the fantasist, the enigma or the bonafide pain in my ass. Often shares personal stories that may or may not be real.
• W, pen pal turned long-distance partner 2021-2023 — turned emotionally abusive after I refused to physically cheat on his wife with him.
• B, long time friend turned poly partner, 2008(ish)-2023 — met on the now-defunct Informed Consent then in person at Bristol Kite Festival. Ugly break-up over communication and trust issues, tragically no longer friends.
• L (m) & N (f), Jan-March 2025 — L was my pen pal, N was curious about BDSM. We partnered with them in a long-distance polycule but communication difficulties meant things went awry quite quickly.
• (Mister) Valkyries, 2025 – present — met on the Lovehoney Forum, messaged via my blog and we started chatting. More than friends. but spar like we’re enemies.